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Are you tired of being lonely?

Are you fed up with hoping, hinting, settling or
spinning your wheels in a dead-end relationship?

Are you looking for more than casual sex or cohabitation?

The Modest Minx: A Date-For-Marriage Method For Women Who Know That Good Men Marry Class, Not Ass

I wrote this book because single women have never been unhappier or more unsuccessful in their personal lives.  It seems like all the good men – those with class, clarity and character – are taken, and the rest would rather play video games or cash in on booty calls than go through all the trouble of asking a woman out on a date and starting a long-term, monogamous relationship.  If a woman does land a date, she is quickly disillusioned by the mixed messages, indifference or narcissistic behaviour of some single men out there.

The situation isn’t any better for women who are in so-called committed relationships.  Whether they’re dating “exclusively” or living together, they often find themselves spinning their wheels for years in dead-end relationships with men who won’t marry them no matter how much they hint, beg, cry, strategize, threaten or do backflips in bed.

In THE MODEST MINX, I provide counter-culture, comprehensive and sophisticated advice that helps women distinguish themselves in a dating world that is teeming with promiscuous party girls, desperate divas, cliche cougars and pouty-mouthed, selfie-snapping airheads. If you want tell-it-like-it-is advice that can protect your heart while helping you find lasting love, this is the book for you.

Date with social grace, sexual modesty and a confident purpose – to be seen as “wife material” by a high-quality and marriage-minded man, not a take-it-or-leave-it “booty call” or “roommate with benefits” by a guy who has no intention of committing to you. Don’t buy into the lie that marriage doesn’t matter.

A Modest Minx knows better.

And thanks to this book, she can date better, too.

From the Author:

“If you’re happy with your dating life and lifestyle choices, fantastic – this book isn’t for you. Every woman has to decide what is right for her and marriage isn’t important to everyone. That being said, there are many women who want to date for marriage, not just date for fun, casual sex or cohabitation, and their lifestyle preferences are also deserving of respect. This book is for those women, particularly if they are unhappy in their dating life and are looking for a new approach.  Every woman is entitled to her own opinions, values and behaviour when it comes to female sexuality, lifestyle choices and intimate relationships.”

 – Debra Macleod, B.A., LL.B.

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The Modest Minx Mission Statement

The Modest Minx initiative wants every woman to have the self-respect, self-worth and self-confidence it takes to attract a high-quality man, one who will be a loving, devoted husband.  The Modest Minx encourages a woman to show social grace in the dating world and to exercise thought and discretion when it comes to physical intimacy, always making sure that her choices reflect her own values and best interests, so that she never settles for a relationship in which she is unloved, misled, mistreated or disrespected.   

The Modest Minx believes that legal marriage is still the lifestyle choice that has the best chance of leading to a long-term, committed and happy union between two people, and that it provides the best chance of creating a stable family unit for children to grow up in. 

Put those days of trying so hard to stand out in the crowd behind you.

In THE MODEST MINX, I provide counter-culture, comprehensive and sophisticated advice that helps women distinguish themselves in a dating world that is teeming with promiscuous party girls, desperate divas, cliche cougars and pouty-mouthed, selfie-snapping airheads. If you want tell-it-like-it-is advice that can protect your heart while helping you find lasting love, this is the book for you.

Testimonials

Here's what women have been saying about my date-to-marry consultations...

Before talking to you I would put up with anything just to have a man in my life – good men don’t usually line-up to be with a single mom. Now I know how to handle myself and the vibe I’m putting out there is attracting better men than I’ve ever known. There’s no games, no attitude, no mixed messages. I feel like I’ve re-created myself and I am a catch! The new guy I’m dating sure seems to think so ☺.

Fem icon grey~ Jenn – Victoria, BC

Before talking to you I felt like I was the typical clingy, desperate girlfriend that he was annoyed by. Now I feel like we can communicate and I can show him the type of person I am without having to constantly natter in his ear to convince him of how awesome I am or how lucky he is to have me. HE set a date for the wedding (I didn’t say a thing!) and soon I can call myself a “wife” instead of a “girlfriend.”

Fem icon grey~ Lindsay – Los Angeles, CA

I was terrified the first time I was on a date and felt myself falling into old habits, but I could hear your voice in my ear scolding me! It worked like a charm and felt incredible. Now I have my choice of men instead of settling for an idiot. There are two nice guys who are both asking me out. I am so done with being used and thrown away and I’ll never go back. Thank you so much, Deb.

Fem icon grey~ Tia - Toronto, ON

Hi Debra! So last night he pulled the same old bullshit and I didn’t freak out, panic or cry – I did exactly what you told me to do. He was absolutely baffled and before I knew it, he was walking around the apartment apologizing and asking me what he could do to make things better. You’re right, this is a way better way to live! I can’t wait to see what happens tomorrow.

Fem icon grey~ Meagan – Drumheller, AB

Deb Around The Web

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